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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Tell her the next time, she is to grab a handful of shirt with one hand and set to punching him in the face with the other until they pull her off, all the while shouting stop molesting me. [/quote]

OP here. Lol you sounds like my husband. But I did tell her to raise her voice and say "STOP TOUCHING ME NOW" over and over. She's a rule follower, so this is not her comfort zone, but I told her she has full permission to raise her voice as loud as she needs to. [/quote]

Yes.  And roleplay with her.  She needs to practice because it's uncomfortable.  But this is the best way to get the attention of a nearby adult.

If he doesn't stop, I'd tell her she can punch him in the stomach.  When she gets in trouble, you reference the email you already sent.[/quote]

So then what happens if this kid punches her back? What ridiculous advice. Violence is not how we handle things in a civilized society. Especially disproportionate violence. Being poked is not the same as being punched or kicked. SMH[/quote]

Boy pokes girl repeatedly in nipple
Girl says stop
Boy doesn't stop
Girl sobs
Boy does it again
Girl defends herself physically

Your take: How terrible we are encouraging this girl to resort to violence! How dare she!

GMAFB[/quote]

Also— at this point the school has been notified. They can monitor him in the line. They can have him eat lunch in the office. They have endless opportunity to do their job right and safeguard these kids.

If they don’t do it? Why should the girl expect that telling an adult will make any difference this time?[/quote]

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