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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Don't do it, OP. I waded into that pool during my midlife crisis and ended up feeling used. Men love married women because they can use them and discard them. Feeling amazing for an hour compared to feeling discarded for days/weeks/months. It's better in your head than it will ever be in real life. [/quote]

Wow…..
If someone can make a woman feel amazing for an entire HOUR…..🔥……then it might just be totally worth it.

Of course, I am only kidding.[/quote]

Now think about how she probably feels *all of the time* without that hour. Taken for granted, overlooked, overworked. Somebody brings her a box of chocolates she mentioned she liked in casual conversation and that’s more thought and care than she’s received in months, maybe years. And the person tells her she’s beautiful. And listens to her, perhaps for an entire hour.

Cheating is terrible and never worth it but I can see how it could happen. My marriage is a good one, DH is a great and thoughtful partner and an incredible dad, but even I have been tempted, thankfully didn’t cross the line. After that experience I am not so sure that cheating could never happen to my marriage, on either side.
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There are men who are EXPERTS are doing/saying the right thing just so they can run through you, pump you and dump you. Don't get it twisted. They only paid attention to you so they can f**k you. When men act on their pure animalistic instinct they are incredibly efficient leaving behind them a woman happy for an hour but worse off mentally afterwards.

If you are unhappy in your marriage leave. Don't you use your children as excuses, the financial situation as excuse. Money comes and goes. When you are single again you will find your MAN. [/quote]

The entire premise of your post is that sex is bad and women shouldn’t want it. So I can’t even… [/quote]

I think he made excellent points. The way I read it is that if you are truly unhappy and want sex or whatnot and you are lacking it at home, what stops you from divorcing your spouse? And even better you won't have to lie and hide when you are single. [/quote]

You make excellent points. The other poster shamed women (and men) for having any wants or needs, emotional or sexual—that was the premise of the posts. It wasn’t about integrity, it was about shame. That shame is what steers women toward unfulfilling marriages and keeps them in such marriages.[/quote]

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