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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Don't do it, OP. I waded into that pool during my midlife crisis and ended up feeling used. Men love married women because they can use them and discard them. Feeling amazing for an hour compared to feeling discarded for days/weeks/months. It's better in your head than it will ever be in real life. [/quote]

Wow…..
If someone can make a woman feel amazing for an entire HOUR…..🔥……then it might just be totally worth it.

Of course, I am only kidding.[/quote]

Now think about how she probably feels *all of the time* without that hour. Taken for granted, overlooked, overworked. Somebody brings her a box of chocolates she mentioned she liked in casual conversation and that’s more thought and care than she’s received in months, maybe years. And the person tells her she’s beautiful. And listens to her, perhaps for an entire hour.

Cheating is terrible and never worth it but I can see how it could happen. My marriage is a good one, DH is a great and thoughtful partner and an incredible dad, but even I have been tempted, thankfully didn’t cross the line. After that experience I am not so sure that cheating could never happen to my marriage, on either side.
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Women will always justify their cheating. Hey it's okay if you choose to cheat and betray your spouse. Own it. Don't justify it.[/quote]

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