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[quote=Anonymous]He is signaling that he doesn’t not think you pay for enough. Some married couples still go Dutch. I personally would not like this arrangement. I want a man who is generous with me. However, many couples are ok with this arrangement. You should have an honest conversation with your boyfriend and see if there is a future with him, meaning marriage. If not, I would stop wasting my time and find someone else. When I was dating Dh, then boyfriend, it may have seemed like he paid for everything. He did pay most times when we went out. I bought groceries, take out (frequently), home items, clothing for him and paid for vacations. I’m not sure why but I always preferred for the guy to pay when we went to a restaurant or outing. I heard couples are different these days. Couples Venmo one another often. I couldn’t pay a guy back for coffee or a drink. That wouldn’t work for me.[/quote]
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