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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I thought about cheating on my hisband when he cheated on me, but really, why sink to his level?  I contracted for monogamous sex in our relationship, and once he cheated, I had no interest in sleeping with him, and certainly no interest in sleeping around with other men. I find that kind of sex boring, shallow and unsafe, but YMMV.

Instead, I wished that I had immediately told my DH that his breaking the monogamy I had asked for in order to date and marry him meant that he had broken the terms of our sexual relationship and that I would no longer sleep with him at all, and that I considered myself free to sleep with and have relationships with whomever I wanted. Sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander.

That would have solved the traumatizing problem of his continually pushing me for sex when it was obvious to me that he was no longer being faithful even when he said he was - that manipulation made for non-consensual, unsafe sex conditions. [/quote]

I’m so sorry, that sounds awful. [/quote]

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