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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] So many seem to ask how things go for one who divorces in mid-forties with an emphasis on how the woman or man is doing --- but the larger question is often is how the parent with an interest in the children and the children is doing. We are just at the beginning of what will be a high conflict divorce in being able to help out a daughter who dealt with things unbeknowst to us for a year. When a young teen daughter asks. "When is this going to be over?" you know as difficult as it is to consider moving out and moving on it is definitely in the best interest of your own mental health and that of the children. SIL never thought we would step be able to step up to help and play for the long game, but we are. I can only say that it is so not about who one is dating or how the adult feels - but rather how are the children doing from day-to-day. Finances will not be the issue, but rather the stabiity of the children. We hope he gets the mental health help he needs as everyone else is doing so, but him![/quote] Both parents will say anything, anything in court about how much they love love love the children. You don’t have to prove or disprove that, you have to prove they cannot and do not care for the children. [/quote]
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