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[quote=Anonymous]OP - I had some experience trying to date a poly man. He claimed wanting a long term partnership, and that I checked all of his "boxes".  I stopped it when I found out he had 3 partners in 2 days (inviting 2 women to one dinner) over just one weekend. He was disappearing all the time on weekends, "working" hard etc. He was early 60s and had an insane sex drive.

When men have so many partners, sex with one woman gives them so low hormonal reward that they have to pursue new and new women; many of these men are also into all kinds of kinks seeking extremes because they don't get that strong of a feeling from sex with one woman. Mine wanted to see me f...k other men, for example, had a really strong "hotwife" kink.

In practice, it just resulted in us not being able to build anything together, as relationship was always put on "hold" by his absences to seek new partners.

Maybe polyamory is different for some men who maintain 2-3 stable partners, but that was not the case with that guy. I was also very concerned for STIs and didn't want to sleep with him

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