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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]						I’d leave him to his women op and I’d tell him that if he wants you, you’re a one woman kind of gal and then I’d move on. 
For whatever reason, my yuck vibe is going. The fact that he’s a coworker is troubling, and the fact that you are considering something that you don’t want to do is troubling. 
You are 50. You’ve been alive long enough to know that you can try something and if you don’t like it, end the thing you don’t like. You don’t need random people to tell you any of this. If you date him and don’t like it, end it. If you don’t like what he’s telling you he’s going to do, don’t date him. 
I’m also wondering how far back you and this coworker go. You mention that he’s supported you through divorce fallout and parent illness/death do you ever have a normal day or conversation with this guy because when he’s not talking about your problems he’s whining about his marriage. I’d be tired of the comforting and Monday morning quarterbacking and just want a loving romantic relationship with someone who wanted to be with me and only me sexually. It doesn’t make sense why a woman who is your age who says she can get lots of guys would even look twice at the dirty old man coworker. [/quote]

Very astute. Right on.
I totally agree that this isn’t a situation of 2 people meeting each other and “dating.” There’s a history of non-monogamy and precedence. 
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