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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m reminded of when we lived in Scarsdale, where dual high-income families were commonplace.  I was eavesdropping on some high school boys having lunch in a local deli.  They were talking about another boy, and how his mom is a doctor who works overnights at a hospital so he never sees her.  And they all had such genuine sadness for him over that fact.  I just have to wonder what’s the point of having such a big job that you don’t ever see your kids.  [/quote]

I’m a mom who works overnights in a hospital so that I CAN be there for my kids.  I’m sleeping, but home during the day if there is any kind of emergency at school or sick child who needs to stay home.  I pick my kids up at school every day, drive them to extracurriculars, help with homework, make dinner, and read them stories before bed.  Then I take a quick nap and go in to work at midnight.

Working nights is not a “big job.”  No one is working nights and doing hospital administration or getting big research dollars.  Doctors working nights are taking care of sick people who need emergent care.  I don’t know how you can’t see the point of that.  
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Sorry about the rant.

I agree with you, OP.  My sister is 10 years younger than I am, and she is about your age.  I have noticed that there are very different expectations of her husband at home.  I’ve seen this with my residents too.  I’m not a surgeon or in any high intensity field,  but over the last 10 years or so, I’ve started seeing expectations shift, and men with kids are expected to take leave when their babies are born, to need to leave on time, and to take occasional sick days to take care of children.  10-15 years ago, the expectation was that men had no responsibilities outside of work, and their wives (or someone?) would handle everything.  [/quote]

Yes and it's precisely that because the men are equal partners that no one really wants more (3+) kids.  Turns out that parenting is hard. [/quote]

Haha!  And I think that wanting to keep the men as equal partners in the home is keeping women at work when they thought they would be SAHMs.

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Nobody wants to be a SAHM anymore.[/quote]

Isn’t that what I just said?  [/quote]

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