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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If the goal is a marriage and a family, the guy should pay and pick the dates.  If the goal is a "partnership" instead, they should split all costs from the beginning.

One of these is more likely to lead to more grandchildren.  Choose accordingly.  [/quote]

I doubt the GF wants the guy to pick all the dates...just pay for them.  No college-educated couple behaves this way, even if the guy is paying for everything.

However...you do bring up maybe a good way for this guy to give his freeloading GF a kick in the a**.  Tell her that he will pay for everything, but he picks all the dates.  He can tell her that she either accepts sports bars, top golf...the occasional strip club (great wings)...chipotle, etc. are where all the dates happen, or perhaps she can pick some dates and pay too.[/quote]

A guy who takes charge and leads is well received by women, especially modern women.  He doesn't even need to tell her what they're doing.  Saying he'll pick her up at X time is generally sufficient, provided a normal wardrobe will suffice.

The "college-educated" description misses the fundamental truth.  Reminds me how "college-educated" women have certain progressive political beliefs they drop the second they find a conservative man of sufficient value.  Women talk a good game about wanting "empowerment," but the second the guy makes enough money they stay at home and assume the traditional role.  You especially see this with Harvard Business School grads.

Feminism is a collection of politics designed to get women to behave in unfeminine ways.  The fact people still cite that stuff as anything other than unnatural after so many decades is hilarious.  We've come a long way from the abuse in the West that understandably drove women to organize in places like Wyoming.  People should not use the term feminism as if it means the same thing across decades.  
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