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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If I were a single woman, I would not want to date a “retired” 35 yr old, I’d want someone working a decently paying job [/quote]

Haha. OP, dating in the DC area is going to present several problems for you. Women in this area are typically strivers and look down upon guys who retire early or don't enjoy the rat race. They will either be extremely jealous of your situation or they will expect you to fully subsidize their early retirement. They will also be materialistic, and this is a lifestyle that you likely can't afford at 2.5 mil.

I think you really need to be open to different lifestyles that will likely be a better fit for you. You are single and have freedom, so now is the time. Have you thought about moving to another country? You can support a family easily on 40k in SE Asia or Latin America. Or you can stay single and have a blast. I recently retired at 50 and spend several months a year in South America and it's been amazing. I work part time when in the US just to stay busy and don't really date. It's just a big waste of time and I'd rather spend time with family and friends. You could also simply date women casually in the US. Be up front about your lifestyle, and if they try to change you, rinse and repeat. Remember that you are the one in control of your life.[/quote]

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