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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It was debt before the marriage? She should let him take care of it himself. [/quote]

In the meantime she should pay all the bills out of her income and let him focus on his debt? What's the difference? She's no better off.[/quote]

They both pay their bills half-and-half, and he pays down his debt with whatever he has left.[/quote]

If that’s your view of marriage, that makes sense. If your view is a team and partnership and all resources go for the good of the family then this is a violation of that agreement because there would be no separate money.

Thing about this type of relationship is that it leads to bean counting. So what if later someone sues her and gets a judgment for a million dollars or even just results in running up six figure attorney bills, is that hers is fit related to separate conduct/transactions. And what about time. That’s a relationship resource.   A transactional type of relationship would t work for me but it probably does for others. [/quote]

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