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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just make sure you know where all the money is and how to access the accounts, and that you have access to sufficient funds to pay a very good lawyer up front should you ever are faced with your DH's idea of success has changed to include dumping the old for a new model. [/quote] This is a good idea in general, not just in case of infidelity or divorce. My dad passed away when I was a teenager and I remember my mom, who did work outside the home but was not the primary on handling family finances, struggling for a while to get a handle on what accounts were where, etc. She got a handle on it, but it took a few months, and added to the stress when she had just lost her spouse. My wife and i keep a document with account numbers, passwords, phone numbers, etc. that we update occasionally, just in case. We were calling it the "death document", but that felt a little morbid, so now it is just the "financial accounts document" or something like that. :) [/quote]
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