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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Previously worked on elder care and had a parent who was in a full-care facility for many years.

Bottom line in future:  I predict elder care will be increasingly done by medication, robotics and technology. Essentially, warehousing the elderly in larger and larger facilities.

Even now, many elderly are over medicated almost to the point of stupor and are often completely bed-ridden, to be able for staff to manage them easier and spend less time on their care.

Profit is the motivator. Most assisted living and 
Skilled nursing facilities are corporately owned now and are  primarily interested in profits.

In China, they already have huge high-rise facilities where the elderly are assisted by technology (robotic meal delivery, sensors/cameras in room, beds/wetness sensors, robots lifing/moving people) where all of it is monitored by a central "command post." 
Basically, no need for staff unless/until a monitor shows distress or a specific need.

I am certain this will be elder care in future America.

Welcome to the 21st Century
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This is horrible. [/quote]

It may be better than having grandma sit in her soaking wet bed waiting for the overworked nurse's aide to come and change her sheets.[/quote]

Or falling down the stairs in her own home that's unsafe to live in. Or allowing water damage in a bathroom to get so bad that whole forms in the subfloor.[/quote]

But what some of us are saying: WHY isn't there a better in between option??? That makes it safe and social for them and takes some of the work out of it for their adult kids? And allows those adult kids to be more compassionate and caring towards their elderly parents?

I'll be honest, I am shocked at some of the attitudes and views I've read on this thread. Viewing parents as nothing more than a hassle. Such lacking in empathy. While it IS hard and those views are understandable at some level, I just don't understand the  . . . sterility or lack of wanting to care for parents that some of you are displaying. So I guess the answer to the original question is, yes, in this country, get ready to be alone.

That's really sad. And scary. [/quote]

Right, it is not like you could not see the baby boom generation coming from decades ago.

But we are a capitalist country. The emphasis is on making money and rewarding those who do. DCUM parents  choose their kid’s college based upon ROI (not quality of education or best place for my kid to mature into an adult).

Many other countries have better values, and policies which reflect them. 
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I don't understand what you are trying to say. [/quote]

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