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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. Thank you for the replies. For clarity, this is WAY beyond a situation where we’ve simply moved past the lust stage or lack butterflies. When I say there is no conflict, what I mean is the kids do not see us fighting. There are massive amounts of dysfunction in our relationship. Even though we don’t fight, there is still a lot of toxicity that is only getting worse over time and I do feel overwhelming resentment and disappointment in DH. We have tried going to couples counseling multiple times over multiple years. It did not help us. I don’t know where we go from here. But wanted to clarify this is way beyond a situation of me yearning for more romance or something. [/quote] This doesn’t sound like a low conflict platonic situation. This sounds like tension and discomfort at home. In that case, I think divorce is better for the kids, if you can provide them a home that is not full of toxicity, resentment, and disappointment. [/quote]
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