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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I mean in any situation, if you're comparing a thing vs the absolute worse case as a baseline (horrible ex), then whatever that other thing is will be better.[/quote]

Even a nice ex typically doesn’t consent to the other parent moving the kids abroad. SMBC gets 100% autonomy in how she raises her kids and where, without having someone else’s view to consider. She has exponentially more freedom than a married or divorced mother.[/quote]

Um she should consider the kids once in awhile don't you think? [/quote]

Yes she did and does. She will not have to split her attention the kids are way better off.[/quote]

This freedom comes at a steep cost. No other person will be as interested in the kids as a loving father, the kids will never have a chance to know their father. Also hope SMBC doesn't get breast or colon cancer, or in the case of a dear friend, glioblastoma and leave her kids orphaned. There are tradeoffs and I'm not buying this perfect picture you painting of a fairy tale SMBC life. Being the sole supporter with no backup sounds terrible.[/quote]

The outcome for the kids if they had two parents and lost their mother is still grim.

On the other hand most SMBC’s know this risk going in and so do the needful on life insurance and really carefully and intentionally picking guardians— and no one can second guess those choices and try to fight them in court because there isn’t a dad’s family to get involved.

It’s not for everyone. But if you have the resources and your choices are to marry a lower-tier man and be trapped, emotionally legally and financially, or to do it on your own? Do it on your own.[/quote]

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