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[quote=Anonymous]I get what you’re saying. I’m a little younger than you but if you’re anything like me, you’re just mentally and physically done trying to be “f*ckable.” You’ve probably been dieting and restricting food since your late teens/early 20s. When you go clothes shopping your entire mental energy is focused on “omg but is this FLATTERING???” Even if something otherwise fits well and is comfy and your style. And now you want to wear clothes that might just be comfy and not flattering and order the creamy pasta at dinner and an extra glass of wine too!

Yes, I think you should go for it. Let loose a little. I’m sure your husband doesn’t weigh the same or have the same head of hair that he had on your wedding day. Getting older happens to all of us and life is too short to hold onto the BS. For your own health’s sake, remain as active as you can be in activities that you like, and stay engaged in what’s going on in the world (at 50, you’re likely still working/not retired so this is easier, but just something to keep in mind for later). And order the dessert when you go out and buy the stretchy pants and comfortable sandals and live your best life! [/quote]

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