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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I haven’t let things go and put a solid amount of effort into my day to day appearance but my DH has put on a lot of weight and, honestly, it does impact my attraction to him. It’s not just the extra weight but also the complete lack of effort that’s unattractive. Poor eating habits and a lack of physical activity is kind of a turn off to me, it turns out. [/quote] I agree I am in the same boat. I am 43 and I put a good amount of effort into my appearance. I am about 10 lbs heavier than my pre-marriage and kids weight, but I still workout regularly and i think I look pretty good. At one point my husband lost a bunch of weight and looked better than before we got married, but he has gained a lot of weight back on and he literally never exercises, ever. It definitely takes a hit on my attraction for him.[/quote]
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