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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ahhh this is hard. I feel sorry for your single friend of course, but if I were in her situation I wouldn’t just say “I have to bring my kids and dog now” I would say “I’m so sorry, I know this changes the trip. We could still come and I can share a room with my kids or I can back out, what do you think is best for you?” But the fact that she changed and told you instead of asking you tells me a lot of how the trip will go. I would say that you need a kid free weekend and you can either buy her out of the rental or she could buy YOU out of the rental, but no I wouldn’t go with her kids and dog. I love kids (I’m a teacher) and I still don’t want to vacation with someone else’s kids when I wasn’t planning to. [/quote] +1 [/quote] +1 A true friend would work with to figure out a compromise that is acceptable to both of you. They would not state their plans and expect you to just completely change your plans to accommodate them.[/quote] This. I bet it was her plan all along. Is she always a taker? [/quote]
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