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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is having a FWB. Tell him you are only seeking casual arrangements and don't see this going farther. He will probably bolt, because men don't like it when a woman does what they always do, but at least you were honest. [/quote]

OP here - it’s not a casual relationship already. We talk and text several times a day, about lives, careers, music etc. But he knows I’m still dating others and on the apps (I told him I understand he can do the same). I just don’t feel like the level of practical commitment he can offer given his work and parenting restrains is what I need [/quote]

This is still casual. i talk to my platonic friends every day, too. You aren't even sleeping together.

To compare, I have a man I have been dating for two years. We talk/text every day, see each other every week ( 1-3x) and we have gone on trips together. But it is still casual because we have no commitment to each other. You can't have a non-casual relationship unless you are committed. [/quote]

OP here. What is the difference then between your relationship and what I want ? That you both can sleek with others ? I think adding sexual exclusivity and telling each other if we want to add other partners into it  at least is more ethical and safe. [/quote]

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