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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes you should make sure he understands you are only interested in sex.  He may not fully grasp that just because you're not exclusive.  He may decide he doesn't want to have you around his child.[/quote]

You didn't understand what I said. No interest to be introduced to his child or relatives. I also wouldn't sleep with him and someone else in parallel, and I don't only want him for sex. He's a very decent, successful and smart man. I just enjoy company of other attractive men, too, and want to keep my options open. My dating style is to see someone for a few months, then move to next person until I meet someone who matches me both in attraction level and where we are in life. I want to have a joint house with a partner, not blend families with anyone who has children, and I want that sooner than later. The wait with this person would be just too long, I don't see that working out for me long term [/quote]

The way you describe it here gives me the sense that this man - and all other attractive men for that matter - kind of owe your their companionship on your terms until you’re done with them, with you giving nothing of real substance in return other than sex. You need to cut this guy loose now and not insist to all of us that you want to use him in the way you use others and have him be ok with it. He won’t be and deserves to find someone on his wavelength. [/quote]

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