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[quote=Anonymous]I was a 'gifted kid' who attended a suburban public school with no special programs. There was a normal mix of students, nice people, but the whole ethos of the place was skewed toward an anti-intellectual climate. The teachers loved me, but for the most part my peers didn't get me. I did what I could to fit in--was a cheerleader as well as the yearbook & newspaper editor--but it was a strange road & I always felt I had to suppress who I really was. Thank God for college, and then graduate school & the Rest of Life. Eventually, people find their way--but there were a lot of difficult years. As a result, I sent my children to a private school--where, to my surprise, history repeated itself with a slight twist. While my kids were challenged & encouraged in their academic & extra-curricular lives--& they had choices & opportunities I would have killed for--my eldest, who really is an intellectual--never felt like her peers got her either. That changed once she got to college, which she choose for it's intensity & 'nerdiness'--. So what's my take-away here? Let's face it, America is not a place that values or rewards intellectuals. Giftedness when translated into entrepreneurial or athletic or financial pursuits is just fine--but 'bookishness' isn't . So for those kids & families who really do care about a life of the mind--just be aware that no matter where your child attends school, you are going to have to pay attention to keep those values alive.[/quote]
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