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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My sister married someone who was mentally ill. Here were some of the tells: *Unreallistic expectations and plans about life in general and in specifics *Gaps in personal history, stories don’t add up (My dad and I both wondered if he had been in a hospital or something due to vague timelines/missing details on years) *Fibs/fabulism/exaggerations/lies (delusions) *Immature for age *Difficulty with goals [/quote] VERY true. Big disconnect between Intentions vs What actually happens. Or What they say vs What they actually do. ANd the lies of Omission where constant. Constantly hiding mistakes, messes, broken things, problems. Then DARVO kicks in when someone askes what happened here? [/quote]
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