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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Brother went home and complained to mommy and daddy. Yikes! OP, we don’t know how old your parents are, but be prepared for your parents to ask you to welcome your brother into YOUR house when they pass away. [/quote] This. OP im in the same situation, though I had to set very intense boundaries with them all. I made it very clear that I'm not going to enable his lifestyle after they are gone (one parent already passed.) if he can't work, he can go on disability (which my brother refuses to do.) if he can work, he can work. If he has a mental illness, I can get him help. If he doesn't, there is no need for me. They are seem to think there is a third option. I suppose there is: my parents enabling him. But that third option is really so, so dysfunctional. Don't enter into it. I've said all of this to them. [/quote]
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