Reply to Desperately need DH to step up and it isn’t happening

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "Desperately need DH to step up and it isn’t happening "

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You need to talk to an attorney, but it seems to me that you need to get a new set point on income so that you aren't stuck with everything AND paying your DH. Sounds to me like he wants you to divorce him so he can have an out AND get you to pay for him.

Once you have an equal income situation, then divorce him. [/quote]

THIS.  If you are still making more than him, don't.  Cut your PT hours or speak to your boss about pausing it for a few months.

You need to divorce him and you shouldn't be getting a new fancy job if you want to divorce him.  He clearly is not stepping up for your family, but he will probably ask for CS and alimony.  So talk to a lawyer.

I don't want to armchair diagnose but he sounds depressed to me. Years ago before I had kids or a family I literally couldn't function. My room in my apartment I shared with others was a total mess, could barely get out of bed, I knew I needed to get my act together, but I couldn't.  Saw therapists, etc, but what got me to change?  I moved to a new country.  Not saying you should do that, but a huge change and upheaval in my life sort of shook me out of my depression episode.  Not saying this is what everyone should do, but is your husband seeing any doctors?  I would have divorced me if I acted the way I did and there were kids involved.  [/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics