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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.  Thanks for the feedback.  He doesn’t want me to go on my own as then he would have to take care of them.   I would love to go when my school ends but I am staying an extra 3 weeks because he won’t take vacation to take care of them alone.  And his parents who are only an hour away won’t do it either. [/quote]

Guess he has quite the conundrum and no clue what to do with k-12 kids in the summer.

He CAN order the kids back and file a separation or for divorce.

You both can do a one page doc on how to handle summers off. Might be more flying back and forth but 7 weeks is a lot of time.

How old are the kids? I assume under age 12 if they can disappear from their friends, sports, programs for that long and not be antsy. Sitting at grandmas house for days and days only works if under age 6. [/quote]

DP.  I stay with my parents every summer.  My kids are on the summer swim team there and have friends in the neighborhood that they keep in touch with and text with during the school year.  My daughter is into dance and is in an intensive dance camp near my parents house that she auditioned for last month over zoom.  
It’s a different world than when we were kids.  [/quote]

OP has not disclosed the kids ages nor if she already signed up for camps. Deadlines exist and many camps fill up fast. [/quote]

I'm sure we can help her find some camps.[/quote]

Why is she looking for camps?  
Whatever they decide, it is not her responsibility to find camps or make meals for her husband to feed the kids.

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If she wants to completely delegate to him then they should probably just get divorced…[/quote]

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