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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Without a custody agreement you’re free to do as you wish. That being said I think your best option is to put the ball in his court. Tell him you’ll either continue the status quo of taking them for seven weeks like you always have or have him watch them by himself for the seven weeks you plan on being gone. If he chooses to keep them home to spite you they’ll survive and he’ll probably absolutely hate it. He’s only threatening you to be a prick and to control what you’re doing. Or maybe you can use this as an opportunity to hammer out an actual custody agreement. That way everyone knows what they can and can’t do.[/quote] Yes. He's a jerk. You need to be the adult and use his stupidity against him. Call his bluff and propose to leave the kids with him, wait until he caves. Make him sign an agreement, so he can't call police as soon as you leave. [/quote]
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