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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No house is worth this op.  [/quote]

It is if they can just agree to live peacefully as roommates. [/quote]

OP here. Thanks for your replies, they are very helpful, even if I seem obstinate to you.

We have been trying living only as roommates, but every conversation bears the risk of escalating into a fight. Lately, out of nowhere came his accusation that the only reason why I am helping his parents is because I want to inherit half of their estate. This is incredibly hurtful. I am helping them because he is not. I also have more flexibility time-wise. I cannot stand by knowing that his parents are rotting in their home.[/quote]

He’s mentally ill.  And a cheater.  And emotionally and verbally abusive.

Either divorce, Live separately (ie move away, wherever!), or Totally detach emotionally and from any normal behavior expectations from him.

Dont let him bring you down any more.

Opining on what a mentally sick person is doing or saying or thinking is a WASTE OF TIME. [/quote]

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