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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When he was banging you later that night, he was thinking of her.[/quote]

You must be a woman.  As soon as an attractive woman is out of eyesight they are forgotten.  Think of it like a sunset or a piece of art.  You admire and then go about your day.[/quote]

I'm a woman and I know this, but let's be honest: There's a difference between some random woman who you never see again and someone in your life who you're physically-attracted to and you may think about them while w/ your wife or alone...[/quote]

Of course there is, but that’s not the issue here. Whose husband are you dreaming about to trigger your comment? [/quote]

I'm also the person who said I point out an attractive woman to my husband. I wrote what I did regarding a stranger vs someone you know, because it's so common. I don't think it's a healthy marriage if you can't accept that the overwhelming majority of us are sexual creatures who have desires, but we're also more evolved than most animals, so we're supposed to understand boundaries. There's nothing wrong w/ "thinking about" an attraction to someone, as long as you never try to act on it if you're married and presumably, happy.

I love my husband more than anything and he loves me, which is why it's no big deal if we point out attractive people to each other. He's fully aware of my crushes and teases me about it. I would hope everyone has that kind of relationship where you don't have to hide attraction.[/quote]
I do not try to get my man horny off other bs. If my dh was eyeballing or otherwise getting visably aroused by other women in front of me, I'd fock his best friend and/or his brother. I'm a vengenful woman that way.[/quote]

Why do you assume I point out the attractive women so my husband gets hard or horny? Good God, the imagination on you. It's more along the lines of "Wow, look how gorgeous she is." Not: "Hey, hon, you wanna whack off to that one?"[/quote]

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