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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I organize and plan pretty much everything for my family and it doesn’t bother me.  My husband and I work FT - he’s WAH, I’m WOH - about equal hours, but he makes three times what I do.  We have three kids and share most of the housework (just hired cleaners to come every two weeks), but I do all of the cooking and he does all of the laundry.  He does a lot of the hands on parenting while I am the one enrolling in camps, organizing birthday parties, planning vacations etc.  (and also staying on top of our finances).  I’m pretty Type A and a natural planner so it really doesn’t bother me and I don’t feel bogged down by it.  I guess it’s hard for me to understand why some people feel like it’s so intolerable - it’s just part of being an adult! You would have a mental load even if it were just you![/quote]

Okay, so imagine if he only did laundry and hands on parenting when requested and spent most of his time on his phone while you’re running around vacuuming, scheduling play dates, meal prepping and wrapping birthday presents. Oh and you make more than him. “Understand” now?  
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