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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your DH is in a tough spot. Show compassion and help him handle things so he isn't the designated villain here while trying his best to do right by everyone. I would reach out to his siblings and ask them to help him out as it's draining him personally and putting his marriage at risk. [/quote] OP, do you think your attitude is adding stress to DH and your marriage despite not changing any of the logistics? If you were injured ill, would you not be glad to have a DH who is as committed to caring for the vulnerable? It's a stage of life, it will pass. Whether or not you will have destroyed your marriage in the meantime is up to you. Sibs who have not stepped up are not going to. Be realistic, hire help, perhaps reduce work hours a bit if able. The kids will be gone soon, too. Will you want them to remember you as resentful, OP? Or someone who makes the best of things? [/quote]
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