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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My best guess is that the daughter is a lesbian but knows her mom wants her to be straight. The fact that OP uses lifestyle choices in the title is pretty telling.

The daughter probably knows that if she comes out now, mom will stop paying for college and disown her so she’s dating a girl and telling mom she’s straight. Once she graduates and has a job, she’ll come out and mom will no longer have leverage. Not that “you have to be straight or I won’t pay for college” will actually make her straight.

Straight women (and men) might experiment in college but that’s a very different thing than a long term relationship. The daughter is not straight. [/quote]

OP here-sorry this is nutty. my daughter knows that is not even a remote possibility. she knows she would be loved, cherished (and paid for) no matter what. Just had session with therapist who works with tons of kids this age. She doubts she's gay. She literally works with guys who know girls dating girls who they guy has  a crush on and say she's with a girl but she's into guys. Times have changed...[/quote]

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