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Reply to "We keep arguing about work and home responsibilities because we're both overwhelmed."
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your husband is running quite the con here. He does his best and you do ALL the rest. That is madness. He can cut working out two mornings a week. He can do laundry, meal prep, etc on the weekend. You can tell him you will divorce over this.[/quote] This. I would offer your husband the thought exercise of what life would look like if you were divorced and you even had 50/50 custody. Not as a divorce threat but as a thought experiment... He will be stunned by how much more parenting he would have to do, and how much less you would have to do. Then implement that into your marriage. (I actually did this with my oblivious husband and it worked. If ones persons life would get tremendously easier post divorce and one person's life would get much harder, you have a bad system in place.)[/quote]
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