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[quote=Anonymous]I can relate OP. My MIL was pretty horrendous to me after our first kid because a) I gained a lot of weight and didn’t lose it all by the first birthday, and b) I made her precious son do half of the work! She kept comparing me to the other women in the family who were more traditional (and slim). It all came to a head (screaming match) after the first birthday, I insisted on couple’s therapy with DH, and he realized that he needed to shut her down. We have been happy ever since and she has generally STFU. I still hate her for what she did to me that first vulnerable year but I tolerate her and she now acknowledges that our kids are awesome which means she tacitly agrees I’m a great mother lol.[/quote]
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