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[quote=Anonymous]				Wait, op, where and how are you finding all these sexual awesome friends and where is your husband? Why aren't you giving him all that sexy energy or why didn’t you divorce him? Really not nice of you to expect him to be into your self indulgence no matter what fancy therapy speak you put on it. No wonder too he isn’t into therapy, your post put me off therapy if this is the advice they give out. 
Also, why would you want to slut it up knowing or thinking your mom’s behavior damaged you? You have a husband, you have access to sex, if you don’t like him, end the marriage. 
He’s also probably worried about what your behavior might do to the kids. Kids need a mom and dad and you aren’t dead. Why not enjoy your husband and kids and stop viewing them as wasted years? I’d be furious if my husband said that to me to the point I might just divorce him, why stay where I’m not wanted. 
You’d have been better served learning how to be a married lady, op. Courting looks different when you are married, that is some of the best advice I ever got. Dates look different when you are married. You spend your time differently. Sex should still be awesome, I don’t worry about pregnancy. My husband is stable, no need to worry about my performance. 
Outside of the bedroom, I can say things to him I’d not be able to say if he were a boyfriend. Likewise, I can care for him in a way I couldn’t and wouldn’t if he were just a boyfriend. For example, I can cook dinner tonight and I’m “being nice to my husband” v. “Trying to impress a guy”. Same act, different attitude. 
Pull yourself together, op. [/quote]

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