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[quote=Anonymous]Hi OP, I wrote the long response to you and just checked in again to see where this thread went.

I encourage you to ignore 90% of the snarky ugly replies to this thread. Most of them are written by bitter unhappy women who are posting elsewhere on this board criticizing their husbands endlessly. They just love to tear people down and you made yourself vulnerable in your opening post, which is like chum in the water to these ugly sharks.

Keep working with your therapist, keep growing. Keep pushing back on your husband’s critical and negative comments - reading more posts from you I’m even more convinced that you’ve been taking shit in a codependent relationship because of the experience of your childhood and yes, your husband is feeling threatened by your newfound confidence and unwilling to eat his crap anymore. HE needs to work on himself, and he needs to agree to marital counseling. If he doesn’t, believe me it won’t get better and you’ll wake up 20 years from now with an even more negative and critical partner because that is how 99% of these men get with age - meaner, crankier, more critical of their spouse’s happiness.

Be well. Stand strong. Ignore the DCUM harpies.[/quote]

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