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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You should let him know that you found out.

You should then ask him to ask his sister if you can go.

Respect the answer you get back.

If you aren't invited, there's a reason, and crashing is wrong.  Who knows what it is.  But it's the wedding couple's day, and a respectful person would not seek to detract from it.

This might mean your SIL has permanently written off your relationship.  But so what.  If you are already estranged it doesn't really matter if you are not there.[/quote]

OP here. Is it not wrong to invite someone without spouse? What god united, men can’t separate. We are a family unit and in-laws are all devout Catholics. [/quote]

Now it becomes more clear why you weren't invited. No. People can invite or not invite anyone they like to their celebrations. You and your spouse are not conjoined twins. [/quote]

Umm...if my spouse is invited to a wedding and I am not, then my spouse is not going.  Sure my spouse can do things by themselves, and does many things with friends.  But attending weddings alone is not one of those things.  If you invite one member of a couple, you invite both or NONE. 
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Your spouse doesn't need your permission to go to his sister's wedding. He's not on a leash.[/quote]

My spouse obviously doesn't need my permission.  My spouse would simply RSVP No to an invitation like that and not go.  We've been married 30+ years, this is not a "guys weekend trip".  [/quote]

You don't know your spouse would skip his sister's "wedding". Have you been in this situation?[/quote]

Nope, but I am 100% certain my spouse would put me first should they be put in that situation.  [/quote]

Sad that for a small ceremony you would put yourself first and not encourage your husband to go. Why are you so insecure? Why not just be happy for your SIL? [/quote]

I actually do not have to worry about that.  Been invited to all of my spouses siblings weddings.  The family is family focused and get along so I cannot imagine a sibling not inviting their SIL/BIL to the wedding.  Then again, I get along with all of my SIL/BILs so it's not an issue.  [/quote]

So maybe imagine a scenario where someone has been rude, crossed a line, insulted etc and they would otherwise ruin a happy occasion. Or like others have said, this is a very small affair with a strict headcount limit. Because it's clearly one or both of these things going. This is also a short quick civil ceremony, there's really nothing to see. It's ok to sometimes do things without your spouse or allow them to see their family without escorting them.[/quote]

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