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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'd like to think I'm low key about it, but some times you can't hide it. E.g. I own 4 homes. I take vacations to Hawaii, Europe, the Caribbean sometimes all 3 in the same year. I don't care about the cost of anything. [b]In direct contrast to our family that lives pay check to pay check[/b]. I'm not stupid with my money, but it's obviously different.[/quote] Why don’t you help your family out?[/quote] not PP, but for many family, it's not really help---they would become dependent upon it. I have an older sibling who I have helped previously. Yet they never learn/changed---always have an excuse for "why they can't get ahead". In reality they make a decent salary and have their summers off, so they could easily get a job during the summer to pay off debt/get ahead, but have refused to do that for years (their kid is 29, so they could have easily been doing that for last 15 years without childcare issues). So basically I learned that just giving $$$ means I'm supporting their bad decisions but not helping them adjust their lifestyle to avoid these issues. And I have no desire to spend all of my life supporting that. Some people need a bit of tough love to learn [/quote]
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