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[quote=Anonymous]It's understandable to feel conflicted in this situation. When we face challenges or conflicts with family members, it can bring up a mix of emotions, especially when past actions have left a mark on our relationships. It's important to recognize that your feelings are valid, given the lack of support you felt during your own difficult time. However, how we choose to respond to these feelings can significantly impact our relationships and personal well-being.

Choosing not to visit your mother-in-law or not taking your children to see her is a decision that might provide short-term satisfaction but could lead to longer-term regret or family discord. It's also worth considering the impact on your children and their relationship with their grandmother, as well as your relationship with your husband.

It might be helpful to communicate openly with your husband about how you're feeling and why you're hesitant to make the effort to visit his mother. It could be an opportunity for both of you to discuss boundaries, expectations, and how to support each other in family matters.

If direct communication with your mother-in-law is something you're open to, it might be worth discussing your past experiences and current feelings with her. Sometimes, bringing these feelings to light can lead to understanding and healing.

If you're looking for a more neutral perspective or strategies on how to navigate this situation, speaking to a counselor or therapist could provide valuable insights and coping strategies.

Ultimately, the decision on how to proceed is deeply personal and should be made considering all the dynamics at play, including your well-being, family relationships, and what you feel is the right thing to do in the long run.[/quote]

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