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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Ok, I'll own it. I engaged in "slutting it up" in my 50s as a divorced woman and it was great. I had better sex than I had had in 20 years.  I felt more fulfilled and joyful than I had felt in a long time.  I felt beautiful again after a long time of not feeling that way. My story ended well and I ended up remarrying (one of the *several* guys I slutted it up with). Even if I hadn't remarried, I wouldn't feel bad. I have nothing to be ashamed of for being a sexual person and being older.  Kind of pathetic that anyone would live otherwise.

What's nice is that there are a lot of men out there who can appreciate this point of view, and who don't believe that after a certain age women don't have a right to a sex life.  Sure, you can say they were just using me – and that happens in your teens and 20s as well.  All I can say is I live my life to the fullest and I'm not going to feel bad about it by judgmental, frigid women. [/quote]

Wow, this is inspiring. I'm on the verge of 50, have been divorced 15 years but for various reasons haven't been very interested in dating over the last 10. I do want to date now and would especially enjoy some steady sexual partners but I don't have the stomach for the apps. I have a couple very occasional FWBs but am looking for something more than that but less than a LTR. Sounds like it's possible! What age range were you seeing at that point in your life? I am repeatedly told by men my age that I look a lot younger than I am but I still feel like guys in their late 40s-50s want women in their 30s.[/quote]

I’ve not dated more than 10 years younger nor 2 years older. That works for me. I’ve used the apps and been happy with those I have met in them. If your expectations are realistic, you’ll have fun.[/quote]

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