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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The multiple posts on here trying to slut shame women for having sex is so sad. Here we are in 2024 and grown ass women are being told that having sex with grown ass men is ‘slutting it up’.
WTF.

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Being past menopause and being old and sleeping around is what does not sound appealing. It was poor wording but same message.[/quote]

Ok, I'll own it. I engaged in "slutting it up" in my 50s as a divorced woman and it was great. I had better sex than I had had in 20 years.  I felt more fulfilled and joyful than I had felt in a long time.  I felt beautiful again after a long time of not feeling that way. My story ended well and I ended up remarrying (one of the *several* guys I slutted it up with). Even if I hadn't remarried, I wouldn't feel bad. I have nothing to be ashamed of for being a sexual person and being older.  Kind of pathetic that anyone would live otherwise.

What's nice is that there are a lot of men out there who can appreciate this point of view, and who don't believe that after a certain age women don't have a right to a sex life.  Sure, you can say they were just using me – and that happens in your teens and 20s as well.  All I can say is I live my life to the fullest and I'm not going to feel bad about it by judgmental, frigid women. [/quote]

+1. [/quote]

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