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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I want what every woman wants: a good man with a sense of direction and a financially successful. A good heart and good values.

I know when I spot them but they do not even see me. I know why, I am not conventionally attractive. I know the kind of women they want. Feminine, attractive, put together but also down to earth.

I believe i have the character traits but my face and body do not signal my worthiness.

Do I just lower my standards? I can't seem to know how to downgrade![/quote]

Simple.  You’re a 4-5 trying to pull a 10.  You may have had a 10 or an 8 or 9 before once or twice and they dumped you off.  So now you think you are a 8 or 9 when you’re a 4 or 5.

Good looking successful men have any woman they want.  Dating website stats show this; 80 percent of women are swiping on the same 10 percent of guys . Why wound those guys who have options settle for someone who is not “conveniently” attractive?  They want someone hot, feminine and fun to be around.

You can have your own money, your own house and talk about how you’re financially secure and handle your business.  Good for you, you do what most men do every day.  Congratulations for being an adult.

Men don’t care about that stuff.  They want women who aren’t fat, who aren’t disagreeable and argumentative all the time and who show effort.  Men hate the “sassy” and “yasss slay queen” BS, it’s off-putting.  Oh you can say, men are just scared of independent women all you want.  No men aren’t.  In fact most like independent women, go do your stuff and stop always calling.

Thing is the men who are at your level you’re not attracted to because you think you deserve this good looking rich bad-boy but good guy unicorn.  You don’t, you’re average you deserve an average guy.  It’s harsh but it’s true.  Sorry not sorry [/quote]

Well, this person isn’t going to win any awards for tact, but this is it ^^.

OP, you are a four wanting a nine and it’s not gonna happen. I had a coworker like this; when we met, we were in our early 30s, and now we are just over 50. She kept going on about “hot guys” back then, lol. Like a dumb teenager or something. She is still alone at 50 and has never had a real relationship even though that is pretty much all she ever wanted.  So — moral of the story — you grow up and start dating the fives, or the sixes at the highest, or you will be alone for the rest of your life.[/quote]

I am a man and I think your comments is unfair to women. People don’t even apply ratings to men. Seems like women are the ones that are rated. The ugliest 300 lbs man think (and he is probably right) than he can get a 7 or 8 woman.[/quote]

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