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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You n ed to do what you can to save money for yourself OP, get a bank account for only yourself if you don't already have one, and find at least a part time job when your kid can go to preschool or kindergarten. [/quote]

Her youngest is 7![/quote]

What does that matter? Most women work when their kids are infants. [/quote]

Her best course is to stay with the guy, who covers her housing and all expenses, and also get a job and sock the money away for herself alone for the future. He won’t have any claim to it since they are not married. He may agree to this. However it’s also possible he will ask her to contribute to the household, since she is working. He’s also not entitled to any of the child support for her other two kids and I really hope she hasn’t been using any of that on herself or to offset expenses in her current home situation.

Honestly OP your best bet right now is a job that pays cash that will not disrupt your child support payments, which you should be setting aside and investing. How much are you getting in child support and for how long?[/quote]

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