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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Agree to this being 100% my fault. At this point, she doesn't owe me an apology, I do. I need to address my reactivity which is probably rooted from my own childhood and forge a new relationship with her. I was slapped when I was a kid by my dad and it was so shocking. Hopefully if I can change, she may calm down too. This should have never happened and never will. Ex will not let me see her so I wrote to her an heartfelt apology. I hope she reads it.

And yes, have a lawyer who says that this won't affect child custody at all but if he is crazy, he may get a restraining order against me. CPS has not come after almost 4 days so its not urgent to them. My biggest problem is my ex who is milking this for all its worth. Won't let me talk to dd, has blocked me on her phone, recorded our conversations and sent dd to talk to someone who he knew is a mandatory reporter and will report me to CPS. I've been saying this person was a therapist here because I didn't want to out myself too much but this person is more like a coach. It was weird to have dd talk about the incident to this person so its clear what he was trying to do. 
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You both should apologize but her behavior was over the top and needs consequences.  Who ever this person was, forget it and get your kid away from them if possible.  CPS probably screened it out so I wouldn't worry about them and if they come, just tell them what happened.  Tell them it was a one time incident, you feel horrible, know you handled it wrong but tried many other options to deal with the situation first.

When it is your custody time, go get her and call the police if he/she refuses and document it and file contempt on him if he will not hand her over for your time.[/quote]

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