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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You should combine households. Live in a multi-generational household. Inlaws have their own unit that functions independently. This means that your ILs need to sell their home and use the money to put down the downpayment for a larger home. Then you & DH and ILs, both set pays the mortgage. [/quote] This usually results in the wife being responsible for eldercare. [/quote] I'd worry about my in-laws mooching and not paying their share of the mortgage: that's why they, like op's in-laws, are having financial problems! Living with them, even with them having their own space, seems like a recipe for constant stress, more work taking care of them...And it would also be difficult because we do not have a close, warm relationship at all. [/quote] +1 Don't do this, OP. [/quote]
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