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[quote=Anonymous]I've been skeptical all along that OP is a reliable narrator here.

Another thing that has been bugging me about this thread is the very framing of the first question: that her DH "unilaterally decided" to keep the kids home. I'd like to know how that played out in practice.

In scenario 1, OP and DH literally have no conversation about childcare. And the children stay home.  This seems like it couldn't have happened, because if it did, there was no "unilateral decision" on DH's part. He just defaulted to keeping the kids home since no discussion was had.  Which really doesn't match what OP is claiming happened.

In scenario 2, OP and DH have a conversation about childcare. During said conversation, OP presumably said her position (send kids to daycare) and DH said to keep them home. Presumably this is when the fight ensued. And kids stay home, because again it's the default position.

In no scenario is DH "unilaterally" deciding to do something without communication to OP.  [/quote]

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