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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Once you talk about your sex life in terms of control, it’s over. [/quote]

+1. Of course no one should be FORCING anyone to do anything. The forcing is wrong uniformly. Because yes, forcing spaghetti that he doesn't want down my husband's throat would also be abusive. Anyone who is exercising CONTROL over another person is doing marriage wrong.

Both people in a relationship make small decisions and big decisions all day every day that impact the health of the marriage. A low libido spouse that doesn't make an effort should not be forced to have s*x but they also are not owed a happy relationship with their spouse. The consequences of that are likely a weakened marriage and relationship possibly leading to divorce.

High libido spouses are on here whining about how they don't get to have their cake and eat it too (have a lot of s*x without getting a divorce) but the low libido spouses are also not entitled to have their cake and eat it too (no s*x but a happy marriage).

There's always give and take. No one should be forced to do anything with their physical body. But there are consequences for not doing things that make your spouse happy. This is life. [/quote]

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