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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You give her 90 days to come up with an actionable plan. This is her future, not yours. That plan needs to include: The steps taken to assist with her mental health. This could include setting up an appointment with a therapist. This could also include medication. She needs a career/college plan: She must enroll in community college or get a job. She needs to figure out her living situation. This could include paying your monthly or finding her own place to live. Once that plan is given (within 90 days), she has another 90 days of probation to see it through. If you do not see her being successful, then pack all of her belongings and drive her to a womans shelter. DUECES![/quote] DP here PP, you don’t have a kid with ADHD do you? That means there are extreme challenges with executive functioning. So if she could make plans and follow thru and prioritize she would not be in this position now.[/quote]
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