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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’ve been dating this guy for close to two years. Recently, rediscovered cycling and now goes out on rides four days a week, including about 2 hours each Saturday and Sunday. He’s up an out by 6 am and usually done by 10. It’s become a big part of his social life. He was new to the area when we met and didn’t know too many people. I am jealous a bit that he found a physical outlet he really likes, and wish I could also could find such a passion. I don’t know where I’m going with this. Is four hours on a weekend too much? [/quote]

It's called being a bike widow(er). When Accept it. Don't balk. Don't mention it.  You will lose or make this person very unhappy.  Get your own interests.  I am a wife and used to cycle. I speak from experience.  [/quote]

PP again.  No 2 hours a day is not a lot on a weekend day.  Expect it to become more hours as the weather gets better and as he gets stronger; cycling is addictive ; has it's own culture; and many people keep challenging themselves to ride further distances.  Do you want to try riding? Do something else? Don't sit home moping.  [/quote]

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