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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Oof. OP, as you can tell, this forum is mostly jilted ex wives who absolutely hate their ex husband's new girlfriend no matter what they do and youre just one of them. You won't get unbiased advice here. Head over to r/stepparents (or maybe you already have judging by the lingo you use; if so, definitely post this there!) to get sound advice from people who are dealing with high conflict baby mamas and just doing their best like you. Don't let these bitter old broads convince you that you are somehow the problem for being wary about getting close to someone who is known to violate boundaries, is verbally abusive, and has a history of cursing at you and calling you names. She has no right to meet you, much less a friendship, with you or to dictate whether or not you can spend time with her child unless it's written in a parenting agreement. You're not immature or doing anything unethical or immoral by trusting your partners judgment in what's best for his daughter and the timeline of your relationship. You sound like you're trying to do what's best for the three of you, and kudos for not stopping to her level. You can't be the stable person this child clearly needs in their life if you're going crazy trying to accommodate a crazy baby mama and her bad behavior. As for advice, I would send a brief thank you card for the gift and wishing her a happy holiday. Let her think you never read the Facebook messages because you just don't get on there much so she doesn't know she can harass you there. [/quote] Nope, I’ve been her. She is being immature. Have an adult conversation over dinner; that’s what I did. Who cares what the mother has said about you, this isn’t high school. [/quote]
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